Welcome to Mofosity!
Warning: I have a way of “expressing” myself that might offend certain sensitive people.
I am not trying to offend anyone, but I have to be myself.
Who else can I be?
Make sense?
Ok, let’s move on…
What the fuck does Mofosity mean?
Mofosity is what I call your Inner BadAss.
This is what you need to wake up when life starts kicking your ass, and you decide to stand up and fight back.
We all have an “Inner BadAss”.
It’s there waiting to come kick some ass, you just need to let it loose.
Now, by “BadAss” I do not mean, some crazy motherfucker who destroys everything it doesn’t like.
I mean you have to become stronger, emotionally and mentally.
You can’t sit there waiting for “things” to get better.
You make them better, yourself.
So, what qualifies me to speak about Mofosity?
I have become good friends with my inner BadAss.
Together we have survived a lot of fucked up situations.
Not only survived but came out stronger and wiser.
This is what I want to offer to you.
A platform to find your Inner BadAss and start changing the things in your life that you do not like.
And then go after the things you do like and deserve.
I used to run a relationship help/advice blog, and forum about 18 years ago…
Damn Time Really Does Fly!
If you’re interested, you can probably still find remnants of them on the website Way Back Machine.
Just search for howtogetyourexbackfast.com and howtokicklovesass.com my old blog and forum.
Why did I start these two sites?
I was trying to make money as an affiliate marketer and I was promoting a book called The Magic of Making Up.
I was making sales, and some badly needed money, but all my customers were always asking for help.
It seems the “guru” who was selling this book and offering “support” was just full-of-shit.
So, I stepped up and started trying to help.
What a cluster-fuck that turned out to be.
People were posting comments all over my blog and I was going crazy trying to keep up and answer all of them.
I was about to give up when my “BadAss” kicked in and said “Don’t give up, get smart”.
My forum was born, and later the system.
After around 10 years, and a lot of bullshit, I stopped and deleted it all.
I deleted everything because I didn’t want to be tempted to revive that totally dead fucking horse.
It was time to stop beating a dead horse and move on.
Well, I’m back.
I have a new blog and forum, and they will (hopefully) work much better than my first attempt.
Although as rough as things were with my shitty web design skills and managing to pick the wrong forum software to use.
I did help quite a few people.
So, what happened?
Because I was offering my help for free and, undermining the “relationship gurus” who want to charge you for their help.
I was attacked, constantly with porno backlinks and back then that was a BIG NO-NO in Googles eyes.
That lovely fucking tactic was called Negative SEO, and it fucking worked.
My search rankings tanked, and so did my traffic (a.k.a. people who could find my website) even though I had no control over who links to my site.
Now, they (Google and other search engines) don’t really care because they know that a website cannot stop other websites (bad or good) from linking to your site.
The other (weird thing) was this company in China wanted to buy the domain howtokicklovesass and apparently after I dumped it, they did.
They can keep it and shove it up their ass.
My new domain is better.
I just did some checking on Wayback Machine, and they set up some gambling bullshit on it.
Lol.
WTF does kicking loves ass have to do with gambling?
I guess you have to be Chinese to get it.
The system I set up in my old forum (and in my new forum) depends on getting fresh members in the forum to keep the support system going.
You see, you will be helping yourself and other people who are going through the same thing.
And all it will cost you is time.
I do all the heavy lifting to keep things running and on track.
All I ask in return is that you follow the forum rules and pay it forward by helping others.
I have a lot more to share and maybe I will update this if things start rolling along.
Right now, I have no idea if this will work or not.
I hope it does.
I would love to see this work the way I imagined it would way back when I first started all this.
BTW – My name is Scott – the Head Mofo (my blog/forum username).
OK, time to kick some ass!